Dating old guys
Not that you need a man with money, but it’s nice knowing that you’re dating someone who won’t have to borrow from you to pay his electricity bill at the end of the month. All those years attribute to a worldly human being who can spice up your life with both stories and advice.You know, a meal that doesn’t come out of delivery box. All that confidence that comes with age means your older guy can totally win over your parents. While a younger guy is still pinning his hopes on dating a supermodel, an older guy is over it. It’s better to be feel uncomfortable for a few moments, or to offend someone, than it is to deal with the consequences of staying quiet. High school is not the best years of your life, so take off the pressure of thinking it has to be.
Don’t create your identity on a foundation of someone else. They can be a great way to connect with another person and share similar interests, but make up your own mind and be your own person. Even if it means less time to spend with your boyfriend or girlfriend. First, stop thinking of a relationship as something that will save you. If someone loves you, they will wait until you are ready to have sex. It can bring two people closer together if the timing and situation is right and there is mutual trust and understanding, but sex can also fuck you up. I know it feels like they are against you and that they are trying to ruin your life, but they are actually trying to help. They’ve gone through a lot of the same things, and in the end they just want to keep you safe and protect you. You might think that your friends have everything figured out, but they don’t.
It is great to support someone you love, but it is not your responsibility to save your boyfriend or girlfriend from their problems. and make a decision about whether you are ready to have sex you are in the heat of the moment. When people show you who they really are, believe them the first time.
Never give it up, because without it, you’re a bore.
Try new things and keep discovering what makes you the wonderfully weird person that you are. If you want to play a sport, join the band, be in a club, go to the movies, hang out with friends, take a trip to visit your family, DO IT. Just like anything else in life, you are learning a lot of things for the first time.
Second, it is not your responsibilty to save anyone else. When you fall in love with someone you want to be there for them and make them happy. You don’t want to give up on something or feel like a quitter and you are afraid that saying you deserve better means that you are selfish. Make sure that you have all the information possible about birth control, risks, STDS, etc.